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skull_bearer ([personal profile] skull_bearer) wrote2007-10-12 05:07 pm

Coming Out Day

For those who didn't know, I'm actually asexually straight. In other words, I like guys, I just can't be bothered (plus, the thought of having sex isn't that attractive). However, I expect it'll change at some point, my sexuality is pretty fluid.

Which, considering the amount of porn I write, is pretty weird.

[identity profile] shadowvalkyrie.livejournal.com 2007-10-12 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Which, considering the amount of porn I write, is pretty weird.

*nods* You're probably the world's only chaste porn writer. At least the only voluntarily chaste one.

I expect it'll change at some point, my sexuality is pretty fluid.

The asexual part or the straight part? *smirks*

[identity profile] halokitty69.livejournal.com 2007-10-13 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sort of chaste and attempting to write porn, which might mean it'll turn out really bad, but we'll see.

I'm not voluntarily chaste as such though, just that after my last ex, the thought of sleeping with a man again is vaguely nauseating. Just means I am quite happy to drool over fictional characters.

I'll second the below comment of 'either gender is fine, but I'm not terribly interested in sex' though. Sex is generally a waste of time, but I still appreciate eye candy. Sexual ambiguity FTW! :D

[identity profile] shadowvalkyrie.livejournal.com 2007-10-14 06:48 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sort of chaste and attempting to write porn, which might mean it'll turn out really bad, but we'll see

It might be the other way around: Perhaps you write better porn the less real sex you have? Getting your fun /somwhere/.

after my last ex, the thought of sleeping with a man again is vaguely nauseating

Sounds like there's a pretty awful story behind it.

Sex is generally a waste of time

I don't really think so, but the entire how-to-get-there, with dating and stuff definitely is! Plus, I'm really bad at flirting and all the other pre-mating rituals, like dancing and movies, and wish you could just walk up to someone and say, "Hey, you, you're pretty. Wanna sleep with me?" Sadly, this seems to be frowned upon. *ggg*

[identity profile] delfeus.livejournal.com 2007-10-12 05:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, but it's perfectly normal! I'm not interested in having sex, either, but I like my porn. ;) Granted, I liked the sex when I was having it, but it's really too much of a hassle. I consider myself to be somewhere between bisexual and asexual... either gender is fine, but I'm not terribly interested in sex.