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Jan. 4th, 2019 05:29 amvia http://bit.ly/2R50aJK
So they stuck again last night. I screenshotted the original and sent it to Ao3 as more evidence of harassment, and hopefully that’s the end of it.
However, that being said, I do want to go over a bit on etiquette for prompts because it does occur to me that a lot of people haven’t come up through the kinkmeme era of prompting and might not know how best to prompt.
So, to begin with. Us fandom olds used to fill prompts in livejournal communities called kinkmemes. These were communities people interacted with anonymously. You prompted anonymously, filled anonymously. You couldn’t direct your prompt to any one person, and often didn’t know who filled it. Of course, many prompts never did get filled, but that was just the way it went.
Incidentally, I really loved kinkmemes, although being me I never went anonymous. I still have a lot of fics that started as a kinkmeme prompts- Anteverse Refugee was a kinkmeme prompt.
Anyway, LJ died, and we all moved onto this blue hellsite. Since communities don’t really exist as set gathering places on tumblr, kinkmemes couldn’t really continue (there are some springing up on pillowfort though) and prompts became a lot more personal. Although you could prompt anonymously, you couldn’t fill them anonymously, and all prompts had to be directed to a single author.
And maybe it’s this more personal touch that led to what happened here. This person prompted me three times for the same prompt, and when I didn’t get to it at once (I have a backlog) they started spamming me with sadface emojis. I blocked them to get some peace and quiet, and they moved to spamming my comments in Ao3, and now sending me vague threats via email.
Guys… don’t do this.
Unless you are actually supporting an author via patreon in order to get promptfics (curious as to the legality of this) your part in prompting is to send the prompt, and leave it at that. Your prompt may get filled, it may not. I will not delete a prompt unanswered unless it was bigoted in some way, or the writer is being a jackass. Even if I can’t fill it, I will at least respond to say why.
Let’s prompt and let prompt without being dicks about it, ok?

So they stuck again last night. I screenshotted the original and sent it to Ao3 as more evidence of harassment, and hopefully that’s the end of it.
However, that being said, I do want to go over a bit on etiquette for prompts because it does occur to me that a lot of people haven’t come up through the kinkmeme era of prompting and might not know how best to prompt.
So, to begin with. Us fandom olds used to fill prompts in livejournal communities called kinkmemes. These were communities people interacted with anonymously. You prompted anonymously, filled anonymously. You couldn’t direct your prompt to any one person, and often didn’t know who filled it. Of course, many prompts never did get filled, but that was just the way it went.
Incidentally, I really loved kinkmemes, although being me I never went anonymous. I still have a lot of fics that started as a kinkmeme prompts- Anteverse Refugee was a kinkmeme prompt.
Anyway, LJ died, and we all moved onto this blue hellsite. Since communities don’t really exist as set gathering places on tumblr, kinkmemes couldn’t really continue (there are some springing up on pillowfort though) and prompts became a lot more personal. Although you could prompt anonymously, you couldn’t fill them anonymously, and all prompts had to be directed to a single author.
And maybe it’s this more personal touch that led to what happened here. This person prompted me three times for the same prompt, and when I didn’t get to it at once (I have a backlog) they started spamming me with sadface emojis. I blocked them to get some peace and quiet, and they moved to spamming my comments in Ao3, and now sending me vague threats via email.
Guys… don’t do this.
Unless you are actually supporting an author via patreon in order to get promptfics (curious as to the legality of this) your part in prompting is to send the prompt, and leave it at that. Your prompt may get filled, it may not. I will not delete a prompt unanswered unless it was bigoted in some way, or the writer is being a jackass. Even if I can’t fill it, I will at least respond to say why.
Let’s prompt and let prompt without being dicks about it, ok?
