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You know what? I am going to say it.
I don’t give a fuck if cis straight women are out there getting aroused by m|m content, even if they never end up being queer themselves on any kind of way. I seriously, honestly, do not give a single dirty, moldly, bitter fuck. Why the hell is that a problem?
WHEN and IF they are homophobic, THEN we can start calling out that HOMOPHOBIC BEHAVIOUR, not the movie, manga, fic, fancomic or whatever the fuck they are using to have any kind of pleasure, all of them none of your godang business anyway.
Like, honestly you all out there thinking you are so progressive because you think the porn you watch determines your morality? How the fuck is that any different of the anti-porn sentiment of radfems that results on the actual oppression of sex workers, sex shaming that results in even more misogyny, not to mention a completely devaluation of what homophobia ACTUALLY is? News flash: it isn’t! No matter how you pretend otherwise!
When and IF they do something actually harmful, then we can talk about them not being the best allies possible. But until then, you are doing jackly doodly do by pretending them just enjoying a piece of content is enough to treat them like shit or as a danger. Just fuck off with that shit and start getting some perspective for once. Queer people have a lot more problems than thinking what straight person is consuming the same content we enjoy too.
I find it really sketchy when antis speculate on strangers’ sexuality and kinks in the name of “social justice.” It all seems like a thinly veiled excuse for sexual harassment — when straight cis women read Destiel smut, for example, they aren’t inviting commentary on their masturbatory habits, which makes it incredibly disturbing when antis make up sexual fantasies about strangers (“I bet you jerk off to your dirty yaoi boys twice a day!”) and then go out of their way to share those sexual fantasies with the strangers in question.
Other people’s taste in reading material is none of your business, antis. You’re just being gross :/
Normalizing that behaviour is how later people don’t know what consent or respecting boundaries means. It’s actual harmful shit that makes feel people entitled to the sex life of complete strangers as long they are acceptable targets for it, which on itself make it so OTHER people feel entitled to their sex life. Terf grossly making horrible assumptions about the motivation of trans (women) to transition and how all relates somehow to their sex life? It’s on a concerning close level to what antis promote and do.
